SUCCESSFUL LIVING WITH SPINAL CORD INJURY: INTEGRATING DISABILITY INTO YOUR LIFE
Tuesday, July 26th, 2011Where you were in life at the time of your injury (your age, relationship status, geographic location, education and job) has a crucial bearing on how you react, adapt, and reconcile to this new part of your life. People have different strengths and challenges. Bella’s past included international travel and athletics. Would they be part of her future or influence her direction? Ray painted houses for a living and was the sole breadwinner for his family of five when, in his late fifties, he climbed the ladder to clean the gutters on his house and fell, injuring his spinal cord. How would he reconstruct his future?
How individuals build their lives depends on many variables. For a young person, the task is to define the direction for a lifetime. This will be aided or hindered by support or lack of support, such as family attitudes, education, economic means, and whether adequate rehabilitation facilities are available. An older person, on the other hand, has to deal with the disruption of an established lifestyle at a time when one usually expects life to be in a fairly stable pattern. The situation can be even more complicated for a person in a rocky relationship and with few people who are able and willing to serve as a support network.
So, where you are at the time of injury helps you assess and understand yourself and the assets and deficits of your situation. It helps in explaining why your puzzle looks the way it does . . . and how you might change it.
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